Encouraging Gratitude In Young Children

Published: Mon, 06/29/26

Updated: Thu, 07/02/26

Dear KidsOutAndAbout readers:

Following the success of the "Ted Lasso" series, you may have noticed a trend toward using the phrase “I appreciate you” alongside or even instead of the traditional “thank you.” Experts suggest this shift emphasizes a person's intrinsic qualities and presence rather than confining gratitude to a single action. As parents and educators dedicated to raising kind humans, encouraging gratitude is high on the “must-do” list.

While the concepts of appreciation and kindness can be complex for young minds to grasp, children intuitively understand the happiness that comes from being treated with warmth. As their social awareness matures, they start to discover that practicing kindness and generosity toward others creates a rewarding sense of fulfillment for themselves as well.

At Kiddie Academy, educators utilize a variety of stories, songs, and interactive activities to reinforce character concepts. As part of the overall Life Essentials curriculum, the Kiddie Academy Character Essentials program highlights the value of appreciation by exploring its deeper meaning.

Here are some strategies you can use at home to encourage your child to practice andembrace positive character traits:

Model It

Children learn many skills by observing the important people around them. Every day offers countless opportunities to demonstrate appreciation—whether to the cashier at the grocery store, the crossing guard, or the kind driver who lets you merge in traffic. By consistently modeling gestures of appreciation, you increase the likelihood of raising polite and appreciative children.

Highlight What We Have to Appreciate

From our families to our neighborhoods and the entire planet, there’s much to appreciate. Start small by discussing with your children how fortunate you are to be part of a family. Ask them what they like about your family, what activities they enjoy doing together, and what they appreciate about individual family members. From there, expand the conversation to include what you appreciate in your community and the world at large.

Show Your Children You Appreciate Them

Expressing appreciation to your children brings the concept into focus for them. Demonstrate your appreciation by being specific and timely. For example, saying “I love how you put your plate in the sink after lunch without me asking” makes a greater impact than a simple “thank you.”

Remind Your Children to Say Thank You

It may seem tiresome to continually remind your child to say “thank you” after playdates,when receiving gifts, or even when you get them a drink of water. However, the effort is worthwhile. There is immense satisfaction in hearing your child say “thank you” unprompted, knowing your consistent reminders have paid off.To learn more about Kiddie Academy-St. Louis or to schedule a tour, visit their website: Kiddie Academy-St. Louis.

When children have the chance to forge connections, they learn to communicate effectively and develop strong social skills. This is why connection is a fundamental aspect of the Life Essentials® curriculum at Kiddie Academy.

Warmly,

Debra Ross
Publisher
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